Well, I'm into one of my moods where a word just occurs to me and I happen to think about it. The deeper I delve into it, the more confused I get, wanting in search for an answer. Well, do tag if you'd like to comment about the issue.

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Decisions, decisions, decisions. Life is full of them. Right or wrong? To satisfy the majority or the minority? Would I be happy or would others be happy?

At times, when we make the right decisions, we never realise it till people come up to us and compliment us for it. At times, it goes un-noticed. Taken for granted. When we make the wrong decisions, the whole world faults you. Sometimes immediately, sometimes over a period of time. Sometimes even when the whole event/situations has ended so long ago.

A mentor once told me(yes, you know who you are when you're reading this): "You have to make a decision. You can't satisfy everyone." This brings a lot of thinking into it. Again, you decide if you should adhere to it or to go against it. Eventually, you'll wonder again if what you did was right or wrong.

Vicious cycle. Unreturnable. Facts of life.

Now that is only the deciding end. What about the receiving end?

When we receive a decision that benefits us, obviously we're satisfied. Perhaps be happy or remain emotionless. What about if we object to it? Do we see it from another perspective and try to understand the basis for that decision or strongly stick to the same spot and believe that one's personal decision or the other alternative is much better for the benefit of oneself but not the others?

More often, when we can't come to a decision at that point of time. We put it off. Once, it can be considered putting it off. Twice is procrastination. I'm sure all of us are guilty of it. At times we are aware of it but still go ahead but more often, we don't realise it till time has passed over a certain period of time. When we procrastinate, things never happen, things never get done. And it is rather difficult to reverse it because it embarks on the point of no return. It ends only when one decides to put a stop to it and get started on it.

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Earlier on, before blogging this post, I happened to have an array of choices. However, I decided to lay off thinking about them till next month where they would be of higher importance as compared to what I have now. Seems like the journey of procrastination is about to begin...